Quick Guide to Wedding Vows—for Him
Need to write vows and feeling lost? Is it the morning of your wedding? Don’t worry, we got you.
As wedding planners, we’ve been present for a lot of vows. (And we’ve seen a lot of grooms writing them the morning of the wedding.) Writing vows can be challenging, especially getting started. Hence, why so many grooms wait for last-minute divine intervention. So we put some handy tips and tricks together to help conquer that writer’s block and deliver the best vows possible.
Consider Your Approach
There are many different takes on vows. Determining what approach you most identify with can make starting the writing process a lot easier. So choose your vow persona and let’s get started!
Things to Remember
Now that you have some ideas flowing. Here are our final tips:
Touch base with your partner about your vow vibe, so that you’re on the same page.
Put your vows somewhere safe, like the inside pocket of your jacket.
Write them with plenty of paragraph or line breaks so that you slow down when you read.
Have someone record your vows or keep the paper for later. You will forget them.
Don’t be afraid to borrow ideas or words. If someone else said it best, that’s okay! You won’t get in trouble for plagiarism.
Make it personal. You don’t have to go crazy, but personal touches will mean a lot to your partner to let them know you put the effort into your vow writing.
The best vows are honest and from the heart. They don’t have to be perfect. They just have to be you.
By now, we hope you have some great vows either brewing or written down. If you’d like even more help or inspiration, we have a vow template for you!